Create The Family You Want
The Perfect Family, that myth from 1950s TV and Norman Rockwell paintings, has probably sent more of us into therapy than all of the Halloween movies ever made. I think there are probably more unicorns around than Perfect Families. And you know what? I am okay with that. For those who left the corporate world and have created our paths, it’s not been an easy journey, but it has been necessary for our survival and personal happiness. Unfortunately, it has also been a journey that alienated many of us from our families. Fathers who slaved away for decades in an office or menial job to support the family were never happy at their work but fulfilling their ‘obligation’ to support the family. Mothers stayed home, doing laundry, cooking, ’keeping house,’ and being there for the children. When you were growing up, your parents probably told you that you could be anything you wanted in life…what went unsaid was ‘as long as it is exactly what we did with our lives.’ The problem is that many of us did exactly what we wanted with our lives: we went out and started businesses, did our ‘own thing,’ and built happy and prosperous lives along the way. And they woke one day to realize our parents disapproved of us! Sometimes, it’s because your family doesn’t understand what you do, but sometimes, it’s because we dare to go out and do what we want – and they did not. By taking that risk, we challenge them and their choices, and they don’t like what they see. Rather than put up with the thinly veiled insults from relatives who honestly have no idea what you do (or that you are paying more in taxes than they earned last year), ditch the traditional family and create your own. No, I don’t mean sitting around the table with many inflatables. What I do mean is to start thinking differently about what family IS. Is it people that an accidental sharing of DNA relates to you – or is it the people who honestly care how your day went? The people that you call first to share the successes – or bombs – of your business, or the calls that you let go to voicemail when you see their caller ID? The people that you look forward to seeing on Hump Day or the people that make your heart sink as you walk up the path to their front door? You don’t have to be related to be family. Family is what we make it, the relationships we create and nurture, and nurturing us in return. The family adds warmth, comfort, and a sense of well-being to every aspect of our lives. It is the backdrop for our joy, sadness, successes, failures, and everything. But what it should not do is undermine our sense of self, destroy our beliefs, or ridicule our goals. We should not have to defend our every decision and lifestyle endlessly. But for too many entrepreneurs, this is the case, and the chasm it creates between our ‘blood’ family and ourselves is very often too vast to cross. The solution? Look around you! As entrepreneurs, we tend to attract others of a like mind who see nothing wrong with a commute that ends at the espresso machine in your kitchen or that you worked until 3 am yesterday. Or that you worked in PJs most of last week. It’s what we do, who we are, and most importantly, who we want to be. Embrace it. Enjoy your friends, and realize that THIS is your best family. Skip the stress of worrying about going home for the holidays – reach out to your friends and start new holiday traditions with the family you create yourself. Share the food and fun – even if you don’t share the DNA 😉
Do You Need A Law Of Attraction Coach?
Have you tried using the Law of Attraction but failed? Perhaps the answer is a law of attraction coach. A coach is somebody who is an expert in their subject. In this case, it would be somebody who is living the life they want after implementing principles based on the law of attraction. So what should you look for in a coach? You need someone who can teach. It is possible for someone to be extremely knowledgeable about a certain field but they lack the skills to pass that knowledge on. So you are looking for someone who has the natural ability to translate often complicated theories into the language you understand. A coach does not give you instructions or dictate how you spend your time. Instead, the role of a coach is to guide you on your journey of self-discovery. They provide a helping hand when you get stuck or confused or impatient when it appears that the universe is deaf to your desires. The law of attraction coach will act as a sounding board. While only you know exactly what will make you happy, sometimes we can struggle to articulate the details. Your advisor will help you by asking all the questions you need to answer in order to discover your ideal life. What is the key to getting the law of attraction to work for you? You need to be grateful for the gifts you already have. Even if you are currently going through a difficult time, I guarantee that you have something to feel thankful for. As we practice showing appreciation, we get more things to be grateful for. Look for the silver lining in everything that happens to you and be thankful for it. No matter what difficulties you are currently experiencing, the lessons you will learn will help you in your later life. Be thankful for these experiences as they will help you grow although they may be very painful at this moment in time. Your coach will explain that your current life is a reflection of what is inside you. That is the good news as we have 100% control over what we hold inside of our minds. In other words, our reality is based on our perception of our current circumstances. This would explain why you can have two people stuck in the same 3-hour traffic jam – one will be having a nervous breakdown or becoming angry and aggressive while the other will be relaxing listening to the radio or audiotapes. Their circumstances i.e. the traffic are similar but their reactions are completely different. You will need to be able to trust your advisor 100%, because you will be sharing intimate details of your life; with him or her. It would be a good idea for you to interview several coaches and meet a couple of their past or present students. Once you have done this, trust your inner instinct on which of the law of attraction coach would be right for you.
The Foundations Of The Law Of Attraction
How long has the Law of Attraction been around? For how many years has the human race been using the Law of Attraction? How has the Law of Attraction lasted for so many years and become more popular than ever today? Do you ever ask yourself these kinds of questions? So why has the Law of Attraction stood the test of time? At the most fundamental level, the Law of Attraction uses the “like attracts like” principle. It is based on the premise that thought is the most important thing as it can attract many different things for everyone that uses it correctly. What you think about is what you attract. You Create everything through thought Attracting things in your life through the right thoughts is not limited to material things. The personality that you have is a direct result of your thoughts and so is the physical side of your being. If you are overweight then this is because you eat the wrong things or do not exercise enough. Your thoughts determine all of this. If you are someone who experiences a lot of negative thoughts then the Law of Attraction will give you more negativity in your life. Remember that like is always going to attract like with the Law of Attraction. Is the Law of Attraction really a Secret? A lot of people believe that the Law of Attraction is a big secret. The movie “The Secret” didn’t help with this perception. The Law of Attraction has been in existence since time began and it is a life law that will always be there and anyone can use. It is not possible to avoid the Law of Attraction. It is a life law and you cannot escape it. There is a ton of evidence around to support that it works and some of this dates back thousands of years. But it was not widely taught for thousands of years and in some cultures, people were banned from talking about it. It really wasn’t until the early 20th that the Law of Attraction was widely discussed. Most people are aware of “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill. This embraces the concept of the Law of Attraction. Other famous authors embraced the law as well. In 1912 James Allen wrote “As a Man Thinketh” and this is all about how to use thoughts to get what you want from life. He speaks about the importance of positive thinking and avoiding negativity which are both foundations of the Law of Attraction. How you can make the Law of attraction work for you? The first step to making the law work for you is to fully understand how it works. Everything in life vibrates and you do not see this. If you did it would probably make you mad! Humans communicate with the Universe through their thoughts and if they think in a negative way then they will attract negative things in their life. When you send the right signals to the Universe you will be able to manifest your desires easily. It all starts with the right thoughts but this needs to be followed up with the right action. Never believe that just thinking about your desires will make them happen for you. You need to take action.
Manifesting and The Law of Attraction: Does it work?
You have seen someone achieve great successes or financial abundance just by manifesting. It seems like they get everything with little effort and are just plain lucky. But you can do it also because to manifest is to understand the laws of attraction. So how do you do it? Firstly, the law of attraction. The law of attraction is we attract things we want and don’t want. We attract the people in our lives, the stuff in our homes, and the money in our bank accounts through our thoughts and feelings. Do you find that hard to believe? Then think back about the moment when you were thinking of an old friend and a moment later, your phone rings and it is that friend calling? Laws of attraction at work! You have in fact attracted those things to you through your intentions and desires but you have just brushed it off and called it a coincidence. So how does the law of attraction work? It goes on the concept of like attracts like. If you send out negative thoughts and you are only focusing on the bad, you are attracting negative energy towards you. However, if you are sending out positive energy and focusing on what you desire, you will be able to attract good and positive things. How do you make the laws of attraction work for you? Firstly, your intention must be congruent in every part of your soul. This will be from the physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects. You may desire money at the surface but deep down spiritually, you seek to experience growth in certain areas. Secondly, you need to believe! You must not doubt or worry whether you will be able to attract something. Keep this belief until your desires manifest themselves. Now that you got these two principles down, the more you practice, the easier manifesting comes to you. Soon you will be manifesting yourself to happiness and prosperity!
How Does Spirituality Work on the Law of Attraction?
Spirituality, in a sense, correlates to the term “Universal Law of Attraction.” It is no wonder that the law of attraction is the basis of living on this earth. Have you ever thought of something and expected the thing to happen by it? Alternatively, have you ever wished the genie to understand your needs and bring for you the same? It would have been a magical thing or too good a thing if such things happened in life. However, to make such magical things happen in life, you cannot expect others to work for you. To let the magic happen, you have to do the magic yourself. Throughout the universe, there is an existence of Infinite Intelligence. This power of Infinite Intelligence works to create something. Thus, you can create a new thing by accessing this power through your thoughts. Even if you do not realize this fact, it does happen in the same way. The conscious mind and the subconscious mind play simultaneously to access this Infinite Intelligence and create the new thing. You wish to do something, think of it deeply, and affirm yourself that you can do it, and the law will help you achieve it. The Law of Attraction uses your desires and intention to send out a signal to the universe that you know what you want and are working toward what you desire. Usually, in the days that follow, you start worrying that the thoughts will not work out. It is the negative thought that comes to your mind that makes the whole thing undone. We slow down the momentum of our intention with doubts, and we add obstructions to our path. Therefore, if you want access to the power of the Universal Law of Attraction, then first, you need to be clear of your thoughts. That is, you have to be specific to your needs. Your intentions should not be a vague specification but a genuine thought. For instance, if you need a job, be clear on the kind of job you want, which sector, which position, what salary range, etc. The more specific you are in your needs, the more you are likely to succeed with the law of spirituality. After being specific, visualize your wanting and put it into action. Then, after you achieve your wants, it is the time to hold that achievement for long. Therefore, to carry on that achievement, you have to appreciate yourself at least once a day. Finally, yet importantly, do not let the negative emotions come to your mind. Thus, you work attaining spirituality with the law of attraction.
Gratitude and the Law of Attraction
Gratitude or appreciation of what we already have is necessary to attract things we want. Every day when you wake up try to be thankful. Think about the good things in your live you should be thankful for. Appreciate your job (even if you don’t like it). Feel gratitude for a place to live. If you have some food, some friends, or anything else you can find to appreciate, appreciate it. A lot of people don’t have enough even basic things like food, water and their own place to live. It’s natural that you want more, that you want to improve your standard of life, but first you need to feel gratitude for what you already have. If you start your day with feelings of gratitude you will feel good and you can keep that feeling all day. But you should also write down something like this: “I am so happy and grateful that…” and then write what you would like to have. For example: “I am very happy and grateful that I make $1 million per year; that I have a wonderful and loving wife…etc.” Use the present tense, visualize the things you want, be grateful for them, and think about them as already yours. When you achieve them, you can add new things to your list. When you write about money, start first with the amount you believe is possible and then increase the amount when you got the amount you’d written down. Be specific. When you start doing as described above, at first you might feel strange that you are using present tense for the things you want to have in the future, but it’s important to train your mind and force your mind to think about them in the present tense. After some time of playing such “mental ping pong” your mind will obey and will help you to achieve the things you want. How Does Spirituality Work on the Law of Attraction? Spirituality, in a sense, correlates to the term “Universal Law of Attraction.” It is no wonder that the law of attraction is the basis of living on this earth. Have you ever thought of something and expected the thing to happen by it? Alternatively, have you ever wished the genie to understand your needs and bring for you the same? It would have been a magical thing or too good a thing if such things happened in life. However, to make such magical things happen in life, you cannot expect others to work for you. To let the magic happen, you have to do the magic yourself. Throughout the universe, there is an existence of Infinite Intelligence. This power of Infinite Intelligence works to create something. Thus, you can create a new thing by accessing this power through your thoughts. Even if you do not realize this fact, it does happen in the same way. The conscious mind and the subconscious mind play simultaneously to access this Infinite Intelligence and create the new thing. You wish to do something, think of it deeply, and affirm yourself that you can do it, and the law will help you achieve it. The Law of Attraction uses your desires and intention to send out a signal to the universe that you know what you want and are working toward what you desire. Usually, in the days that follow, you start worrying that the thoughts will not work out. It is the negative thought that comes to your mind that makes the whole thing undone. We slow down the momentum of our intention with doubts, and we add obstructions to our path. Therefore, if you want access to the power of the Universal Law of Attraction, then first, you need to be clear of your thoughts. That is, you have to be specific to your needs. Your intentions should not be a vague specification but a genuine thought. For instance, if you need a job, be clear on the kind of job you want, which sector, which position, what salary range, etc. The more specific you are in your needs, the more you are likely to succeed with the law of spirituality. After being specific, visualize your wanting and put it into action. Then, after you achieve your wants, it is the time to hold that achievement for long. Therefore, to carry on that achievement, you have to appreciate yourself at least once a day. Finally, yet importantly, do not let the negative emotions come to your mind. Thus, you work attaining spirituality with the law of attraction.
