The Hesitant Queen
Anoint Yourself, Girl This is not a drill! This is, in fact, your coronation day. Your tiara is polished, and your subjects await this anticipated regal appointment. You are the protector of your realm. You are the figurehead of your nation. This, of course, is an analogy. And I present the question: Why are you insistent on keeping your diamond-encrusted crown tucked away in your closet? You ascended to this role through years of hard-fought battles. It is your day to shine. And you now have to pass along the wisdom of your experiences to the sisters in your commonwealth. As I connect with women daily, I notice a constant in many of their lives. They often are reluctant to let others observe their glory. All too often, though, women play down their competence and accomplishments. Perhaps it’s through modesty, not wanting to be seen to brag, fear of what others will think, or lack of self-belief. If this sounds like you, it’s time to stop downplaying your success and instead celebrate it. Here are a couple of reasons why women fear their own success: Women have been groomed to downplay their successes as it seems boastful. Women often suffer from low self-esteem: The importance of self-esteem cannot be ignored. Self-esteem has profound consequences that affect every aspect of our existence: how we operate in the workplace, how we deal with people, how high we are likely to rise, and how much we are likely to achieve. In a more personal realm, self-esteem influences our choice of the one with whom we fall in love, how we interact with our partner, children, and friends, and what level of personal happiness we attain. All too often, though, women play down their competence and accomplishments. Perhaps it’s through modesty, not wanting to be seen to brag, fear of what others will think, or lack of self-belief. If this sounds like you, it’s time to stop downplaying your success and instead celebrate it. Here are several reasons women should hold their heads high and own their success. Successful Women Are Inspirations Women who succeed can offer inspiration to others. It is part of the human experience that when a person witnesses the greatness of another, motivation will follow. Your path to success story may plant the seed for someone who lacks confidence. Your triumphs may trigger another to take risks. Celebrating your victories is not boastful- as the ripple effect can touch lives in ways you may never fully comprehend. Curating your road to success into a relatable story is a tangible tool for teaching others how to better their lives. Become a mentor. Give Back. Wear your Crown.
